the thing about anti-kink people ive found is that they would rather cut off their tongues than discuss subs who get off on being slapped around and degraded. literally they are incapable of discussing kink without making the entire thing about evil doms hurting their subs so they can get off. idk maybe it's related to how they can't make an argument that doesn't deprive subs/women of autonomy over their own desires & the ability to knowingly consent to kink. because that is their one fucking argument
^ example of "their only argument is that women shouldn't have autonomy over their sex lives and can't consent"
The Enlightened Radfems have deemed all kinky sex you have as abuse. And since they have decided that this is a fact of your reality, you are incapable of consenting. You may think you can consent, but you can't- you're too stupid indoctrinated by the patriarchy to actually think for yourself. You can't actually know what is hurting you, you need someone else to decide what is right for your body and mind for you. The Enlightened Radfems just want to help you, so you need to ignore everything you think and feel and trust that they know best, they know better than you because they are Educated In Feminism. You need to learn to distrust everything you think and feel, and seek out the advice of Enlightened Radfems to tell you which thoughts are Wrong and which thoughts are Right.
Dislike this? Think its patronizing and eerily similar to how the patriarchy acts towards you? Well, you would think that, because you haven't been Enlightened. Its in your own best interest for them to ignore all those silly little thoughts about what you "want," since if you only listened to them you'd realize you don't actually want the things you want! What do you mean this sounds abusive and extremely controlling! We're Feminist Females so we're automatically better and safer!!!!!
There’s also a really concerning camp out there that says actually, its okay to have hardcore kink if you’re the sub, and only if you’re the sub, because if you’re the dom then obviously you are a literal rapist.
And you may ask if its okay to be a sub with hard kink but not a dom, then how does the sub get that need filled? Well, they have someone play dom who doesn’t enjoy it, of course!
Their literal solution to “i hate kink because i dont believe subs can TRULY consent even when both dom and sub are clearly consenting” is “its okay if the dom’s consent is ignored and violated”
Like they want to take a consensual situation and make it actively non consensual for one of the parties involved JUST so they can feel better about subs liking hard kink.
HEARTWARMING: very brave kobold goes to the grocery and asks a worker to help them reach things on higher shelves
Imagine 1 kobold
now imagine 3 kobold
now imagine 750 kobold
1,000,000 kobolds :3
if you got queerbaited by the shitty teen superhero manga that’s fully on you. you would get trapped under a box if the cheese looked yuri enough.
If your goal is to normalize gender-nonconformity you’re gonna have to accept that some people will fuck with gender as hard as they can while still being unequivocally, 100% cis and that is okay. There’s no egg to crack or callout to write. This is a good thing actually.
This is an actual cruise ship operating in Tokyo (The Himiko) designed by the famous Manga artist Leiji Matsumoto.
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